If You Love Her...

If you love her...

You won't abandon her when times become difficult, even if she may want to abandon you.

You will never be physically or emotionally abusive to her.

You will always treat her with respect, even if you feel it's not earned

You will lay down your life for her.

Laying down your life means putting HER first in ALL things. Meeting her needs as best as you can, and creating an atmosphere of appreciation that will allow her to grow and thrive as a person.

Do these things and you will be amazed by the way she will blossom, grow and treat you with love, respect and release her passion in return.

Your relationship will be...AWESOME!

Showing your man how to make you happy!

Showing your man how to make you happy!

One of the hardest things for men to know is actually how to please their wives. However, when you think about it, you would think that it would be one of the easiest things to do. After all, you two spend years together and you should know each other's moods and habits. This is true however the "knowing" is not enough to sustain a great relationship.

There are a lot of dynamics to any relationship. Some of them are rarely if ever addressed. But they are a constant on the mind of most individuals. 

Concerns like; Am I good enough? Do I provide enough? and Do I physically please her; are just some of the concerns that men deal with in silence.

Ladies make it easy for you the man in your life. Tell him what you want. Tell him what you need. Show him what pleases you. Don't assume he should know or that he can figure it out. 

Most men are clueless when it comes to relationship matters so make it easy for him to be the man of your dreams, tell him how you feel and show him what you want.

Understand that as you do this you must not express yourself in a way that is going to wound his spirit and cause him to feel like a failure.

If you don't know already, even to most macho man can be easily broken by the thought of not being "man enough" to satisfy the woman that he loves.

And while you are seeking to teach him what pleases you, here are a few tips that you can do to make him feel loved and appreciated too!

• Compliment him.
• Tell him you appreciate what he does for you and your family.
• Make time for things to get hot in the bedroom.
• Be supportive of his alone time.
• Put down your phone.
• When you get something for yourself, get something for him, too.
• Look him in the eyes.

Are You Really All In?

Often times we say we can’t when the truth is… we won’t!

In school we are given letter grades to reflect our proficiency. C is average, D below average, B is above average, and then you have to the two extremes: A’s represent exceptional and outstanding, while F’s represent a total failure to preform.

Most people are functioning on a C level, they are average, and I am convinced that rarely is the case that they function at that level because the can’t do better… its simply that they won’t do better!            

Success is a choice followed by effort. Most people are not willing to put in the effort, even for the things they say that they want most!   

Resolve today to be “All In”, adapt a first class, grade A mindset. Do whatever it takes, and do all that is necessary within Godly standards to fulfill you vision and accomplish your goals. 

Never be ashamed or apologetic for your choice to be successful, because you will not be the only one who is the beneficiary of your success. 

Do not settle for anything less than exceptional. 

So be “All In”, do the uncomfortable, difficult, challenging, things and you will achieve an A grade and live a first class life!  

Where Will You Arrive?

Despite what you may be thinking, you are going places!

Even though you may feel in a rut, you might feel that nothing is changing, you might even feel stuck in that same life draining job or dead relationship.

However just consider this... You are still alive and headed somewhere.

The question is where are you going? 

You have the power (despite how powerless you may feel) to change your destiny.

Are you headed towards your vision or wandering through life without a purpose or without a goal?From today onward vow that whatever path does not lead toward your vision, you will eliminate from your walk.

If you follow the path of your vision you will arrive at the destination that you've always dreamed about!

The Power of a Woman

As I thought about the unspoken and perhaps unknown influence that my love has over me, I couldn't help but be reminded of the power that women actually have in the world. Since birth, the woman is the one who has loved, nurtured, trained, and inspired every man on the planet! Women have an enormous amount of power yet don't always seek to or know how to use it to change the destiny of their families. We will discuss more in upcoming episodes.

Being Your Best!

Being Your Best!

How many times have you had a really good stretch of time... When you were on top of you game? Being your best. Doing it right. 

Well it may interest you to know that many of us don't operate at our best because we have inner fears which hold us back. And that fear can sometimes actually be a fear of success. So whatever it is that you seek to do... give it your all go for it , reach for it,  and give it your all, in other words, BE YOUR BEST

How To Make Love

While most people become intrigued by the art of physical love making it is important to remember that before the physical can be meaningful and true; there must come the mental and emotional states of love. This is true love; and thats the most important aspect of love that we must lean how to make.

Becoming Who You Are

There is no doubt about the fact that our time here on this earth is brief. As I get older I am reminded of that fact daily, as I am privy to, and witness the illness and deaths of family and friends. It is always  a sobering reminder of whats really important.

Whats most important are the people you love. Remember to make them a priority in your life. Love them now. Give to them now. Spend time with them now. Because tomorrow might be too late.

Next to the people in your life; is yourself. How much of your time are your spending with yourself? Are you really doing what you are "called" to do? Why not? What excuses are you giving yourself? Who are you blaming for your present condition? What is it thats stopping you from being the person you really want to be? In short, the answer is YOU!

Purpose today to become the person that God has intended you to be. If you don't know; then ask him and keep on asking until you get an answer. And when you do get the answer just do it! Without hesitation... do it! Without reservation... do it! And you WILL be successful, because you are operating with your gifts and talents in the place where you are supposed to be.

***Heres a secret, Becoming whole usually doesn't involved starting many new things; it is simply a matter of letting go old things that have been hindering and holding you down for years. so let go and become who you are.

Beware of those Who Lack Discretion

Respectable men and women don't give out details about their sexual encounters. In fact they may be so discreet that you would never know that they were even in a relationship at all. 

Beware of the person who is ready to give out intimate details about their relationships, past or present... If they can't maintain a level of discretion concerning the person whom they've shared intimacy, how much discretion will they have for you and your circumstances.

If your partner can't discern which things are just supposed to be reserved for just the two of you just because of they need to inflate their egos, then chances are their faithfulness at some point will be an issue too!

5 SECRETS THAT WILL MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP GREAT!

For years people have been saying, "Write The Book!" and I have resisted; not because I didn't want to, nor because I didn't have the tools to share to help my audience, but simply because of time constraints due to the other "hats" I wear.

However I am now happy to announce that "5 Secrects That Will Make Your Relationship Great!" will be published very shortly... I guarantee that if you will apply these 5 secrets to you partnership you will see an amazing difference in you overall relationship happiness, more fun just being together, and increased and more enjoyable lovemaking sessions!

                                

What I am going to show in the few pages of the "manual" will change your life... Forever!

The secrets are very easy to master, theres no additional costs involved, nor is there thing that you have to pay for in order to Make Your Relationship Great!

I will however give you a hint of what it is that is the foundation to Make Your Relationship Great. The key is knowing some specific likes, and desires of your partner, but most importantly understanding their NEEDS!  

Stay tuned. This book is scheduled for release November 

4 Characteristics of The Right Loving Relationship

The truth is, more marriages end in divorce these days than stay intact for life. We have to be sure, that who we’re committing our life to is the one that we can spend the rest of our life with.
Believe it or not more people divorce than stay married. I am convinced that this is simply because the person that was chosen, was the wrong person in the beginning. 
Here’s how you can tell that you may have found Mr. or Miss Right!

4 Characteristics of “The Right” 

Loving Relationship

1. You are best friends.
Your friendship is not only the foundation of your relationship but it is also the glue which keeps it together. You have to "connect" physically, socially, relationally, and this will lead to the two of you having a great sexual connection.
However, at the end of the day when all of the activity is done; you should be trilled just to be sitting on the sofa and watching TV together. In that moment you will know that nothing else matters but the fact that the two of you are together! Make sure you’re best friends; it is a prerequisite for a loving lasting marriage

2. You agree spiritually.
This is major. Paul tells us in 2nd Corinthians 6 that we are not to be unequally yoked. Priorities, temptations, challenges, and struggles will come in any relationship let alone one that's not bound together spiritually.  And when the storms of a marriage relationship come, it’s important that you agree on who can help fix it. Many marriages end because people didn’t get this right. Be careful. 

3. You totally trust them.
The most important aspect of any relationship is trust. Along with that goes communication If you find yourself doubting your trust for your boyfriend or girlfriend, don’t take the next step yet. Be sure you can trust them 100-percent with your time, your stuff, their actions, and their words. If not, then work on it until you do.

4. You don't think about anyone else.
If you still think about who else is out there or if it could still work with an EX, don’t get married. You must be committed to the one you are with now, otherwise you are destined to fail, even before you get started Be sure he or she is the right one for you … no one else!

Making Decisions... As A Couple!

Scripture tells us that If a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand. 
(Mark 3:25)  And thus couples must learn to make decisions together as partners; because all of your major decisions will affect both of you and the children as well.

When one of you is left out of the decision making process it can lead to anger, resentment, and even hatred. Some partners will for example go out and buy expensive items on credit without consulting their partner and it often times leads to putting the couple in a financial bind. And this as you may very well know will lead to resentment, anger, and even hatred.

Remember when your decisions are based on fairness and equality you entire family will benefit... not just you! What do you think?

Being One

RELATIONSHIPS WITH PASTOR RICK: **BEING ONE**  So much of our time is spent at work that we forget what we are working for. We must work but most importantly we must spend time with our families. Or else we will not have a healthy, happy home. Our mates are the only ones on the planet who can fulfill our most intimate needs. When we deprive ourselves of intimate time together we are actually allowing room for a separation in our relationship. MAKE SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR MATE THE NUMBER ONE PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE AND IN THAT UNITY THE TIME FOR EVERYTHING ELSE WILL SOMEHOW WORK OUT! What do you think?

Your Husband's Sexuality Is Your Gift

While in past episodes we have focused on the needs of husbands. Wives must also realized that your husband's sexual desire is also a gift to you.

Having great sex is not going to erase your marriage problems but it will greatly increase your husband's focus, faithfulness, and determination to work toward building a greater marriage.

Every woman wants to feel loved, cared for, and desired. Men do too.  And, we are to love, care for and fulfill each others sexual needs. Scripture puts it this way... 

1 Corinthians 7:3-5

³ Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.  ⁴ The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.  ⁵ Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.     

Wives know that his desire for you is not only to be viewed as "his need to be met"; but also as his drive to please you... and draw him closer into the loving relationship that you both desire.

Listen to this week's episode to find out more...

Each week Pastor Rick Greene talks in detail about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce so that you can be armed with all of the insight you need to have the optimum relationship which God intended you to have. How to build up and not tear down. How to strengthen and not destroy. How to have great a Relationship with the man or woman in your life. If you would like to be a guest call 862-888-8238. If you would like to ask a question email them to relationships@metrochristianmedia.com. Or if you would like to listen to the live show Saturdays at 11pm call 646-652-2581. 

10 Secrets to a successful marriage.

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This episode takes a look at some "secrets" that will definitely help your marriage to be long-lasting and joyous. We take a look a 10 mind sets that will change your thinking, change your life, and change your relationship.

“Happiness is not the most important thing; Commitment to your relationship is. Those in successful marriages have leaned that happiness will come and go from time to time but the most important thing is to learn to intentionally do things that will bring happiness back when life has caused it to slip away.”

Listen to my broadcast to get more insights on some "secrets" that will make your marriage successful.

Each week Pastor Rick Greene talks in detail about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce so that you can be armed with all of the insight you need to have the optimum relationship which God intended you to have. How to build up and not tear down. How to strengthen and not destroy. How to have great a Relationship with the man or woman in your life. If you would like to be a guest call 862-888-8238. If you would like to ask a question email them to relationships@metrochristianmedia.com. Or if you would like to listen to the live show Saturdays at 11pm call 646-652-2581. 

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Understanding Your Husband's Emotional Sexual Needs

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Understanding Your Husbands 

Emotional Sexual Needs

This episode brings up something that I am sure many on you never thought about. Women I'm sure don't normally think about the emotional aspect of their husbands sexual desires. And dare I say that men, while aware of what they are experiencing don't always identify it nor are they ofter able to articulate it to their mates.

Impotent, although usually associated with a man's inability to perform sexually actually means: unable to take effective action; helpless or powerless. 

You may be surprised to find out that many men are impotent, not just sexually, but due to their inability to engage their wives in satisfying lovemaking. This frustration of feeling helpless or powerless impacts their careers, health, family, relationships with friends, and their children. 

As men try to cope with satisfying their sexual / emotional needs, which can often be a major factor in steering their lives (just ask Gen. Petraeus), there is but one person on the planet who is capable of providing this satisfaction in a right, dignified, holy, and legal manner; which will not cause shame, embarrassment, nor disrupt his family and lifestyle. That person is his wife.

Be sure to listen to this week's episode to find out more.  



Each week Pastor Rick Greene talks in detail about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce so that you can be armed with all of the insight you need to have the optimum relationship which God intended you to have. How to build up and not tear down. How to strengthen and not destroy. How to have great a Relationship with the man or woman in your life. If you would like to be a guest call 862-888-8238. If you would like to ask a question email them to relationships@metrochristianmedia.com. Or if you would like to listen to the live show Saturdays at 11pm call 646-652-2581. 

Or listen to all of the MCR shows on the web at 

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Understanding Your Husbands Sexual Needs

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Understanding Your Husbands Sexual Needs

In this episode I really get down to an issue which is plaguing thousands of couples each and ever day. The lack of understanding of sexual "needs" in a marriage.

According to a poll sited by A. D. Hart in his book "The Sexual Man"  83 percent of the 150 Christian married men surveyed, stated that they don't believe that women understand a man's sex drive.

Many men are living in a state of sexual frustration. Doctors, Lawyers, Business leaders and even those in ministry are no exception. Sadly the women in their lives do not understand that it isn't just a an over active libido which drives their partners but there are actually physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational needs which me have that must be fulfilled and if not , your relationships is rapidly headed for failure.

Listen to my broadcast to find out some things to you maybe didn't know about your husband's sexuality and dare I say that many men might not be aware of them as well.

Each week Pastor Rick Greene talks in detail about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce so that you can be armed with all of the insight you need to have the optimum relationship which God intended you to have. How to build up and not tear down. How to strengthen and not destroy. How to have great a Relationship with the man or woman in your life. If you would like to be a guest call 862-888-8238. If you would like to ask a question email them to relationships@metrochristianmedia.com. Or if you would like to listen to the live show Saturdays at 11pm call 646-652-2581. 

Or listen to all of the MCR shows on the web at 

blogtalkradio.com/metrochristianradio

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