Meeting Woman
One of the hardest things many guys find with meeting women is the initial approach. Some guys are just naturals at it. Other guys are just so arrogant, self centered or drunk at the time they don’t care about rejection. But the majority of men don’t find breaking the ice all that easy.
Thoughts of rejection pop into their heads. What will I say? What will she say? How will she react? Am I good enough for her? And these thoughts go on and on until guys come to the conclusion of thinking, what's the use, and never even open their mouths to speak to her.
Approaching women, just like with approaching anyone in everyday life, takes a little degree of confidence and practice. It’s kind of like having a sales job, especially when you are just hoping to meet a women for companionship and not being preoccupied with having an immediate long term relationship with every woman you try to talk to. This is partially why the divorce rate is so high... We try to go from just meeting someone to being married and "living happily ever after" on the first date.
Again, like in sales, you shouldn't get so personally involved so quickly, and you should have the mindset that it isn't such a terrible thing if you get rejected or not. You will simply just move on to the next candidate that has potential and interests you.
Good salesmen are the ones that have the ability to divorce their feelings from the sale and can easily accept and deflect rejection without it upsetting their confidence and rhythm. They know that for every rejection they get, they are one step closer to closing a deal. It’s the law of averages. Meeting women works very much the same way.
So guys if you are really desiring to be in a relationship know that every time you ask someone out you getting that much closer to find a person whom you might be able to share your life with.
REMEMBER THIS: Be open, and especially be honest with her. Also you must be honest with yourself concerning the type relationships you want to have. Do this by taking stock of yourself so that you will know just who you are, what you want, and what type of person will bring happiness into your life.
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