HOW TO REACH YOUR GOALS IN THE NEW YEAR

As we start a new year, most of us will make resolutions and set some goals we would like to fulfill... and while many will put these ideas down and say it pointless because most people do not stick to their resolutions and goals, it is still an excellent way to start off your new year.

Remember to always have SMART goals because it will always allow you to see your progess and Identify the need for adjustments.

PLANNING IS GOOD

As we know that failing to plan is akin to planning to fail, then we must make plans for our future this year... here are 4 easy tips to help you get started and keep you on the right path.

1. You must get rid of everything that isn't important.

This is challenging, not only can it be difficult to delete things, tasks, and people from your life; it is equally difficult identifying what those things and who those people are. but it must be done. When you say "YES" to one thing you automatically say "NO" to another thing simply because you can't be in two places at once. Say "YES" to the thing that is most important, be single minded and stay focused on it no matter what else comes your way.

ASK THE QUESTIONS

2. Do I really need that or need to do that? 

As you ask yourself this question with an honest answer you will find that most of the things you thought were needs are not needed at all.

3. Is this what God wants me to be doing at this time?

You must know what it is that you should be doing. But thats not enough; timing is everything! You have to find yourself in the right place, doing the right thing, at the right time or you will miss the opportunity to accomplish what you are trying to do.

4. Does what I am currently doing help to advance the pursuit of my present goals? 

This is how you know what you should be dong. This is your road map and your compass. It will show you where to go and show you when you are going off course.

I wish you much success in the new year... Remember: You must never ever quit!

The Power of a Woman

As I thought about the unspoken and perhaps unknown influence that my love has over me, I couldn't help but be reminded of the power that women actually have in the world. Since birth, the woman is the one who has loved, nurtured, trained, and inspired every man on the planet! Women have an enormous amount of power yet don't always seek to or know how to use it to change the destiny of their families. We will discuss more in upcoming episodes.

How To Make Love

While most people become intrigued by the art of physical love making it is important to remember that before the physical can be meaningful and true; there must come the mental and emotional states of love. This is true love; and thats the most important aspect of love that we must lean how to make.

Beware of those Who Lack Discretion

Respectable men and women don't give out details about their sexual encounters. In fact they may be so discreet that you would never know that they were even in a relationship at all. 

Beware of the person who is ready to give out intimate details about their relationships, past or present... If they can't maintain a level of discretion concerning the person whom they've shared intimacy, how much discretion will they have for you and your circumstances.

If your partner can't discern which things are just supposed to be reserved for just the two of you just because of they need to inflate their egos, then chances are their faithfulness at some point will be an issue too!

Don't Cause Her To Feel Single!

A woman is fully capable of being faithful. It is not so much in their nature, although it is of course possible, to be drawn to someone else when they are already in a relationship.

Temptation is not her weakness. That's one of the key issues with men... wondering eyes will often lead to a compromise of values and succumbing to physical lusts.

What most women want is Love, Attention, Honesty, and Loyalty. These things, admittedly by most men, are emotional needs that men either struggle with expressing, do not care to express, or, are simply "clueless" to the fact that they exist and are essential to fulfillment,  joy and happiness to most women.

Love her! Love is best expressed through giving and sacrifice. Give to her, your time, your things, but most importantly your heart. Share yourself with her. Sacrifice yourself, put her desires above yours, sacrifices your wants fans desires to see that hers are fulfilled

Pay attention to her. This shows her that you value her and that her opinions and ideas are respected and that they are important to you. She needs this.

Be honest with her. Even when the truth may be unpleasant, tell her the truth. Her intuition will alert her if you are not, and she will sense that something is not right. If you are no longer wanting to be with her then tell her. Be honest. Don't cheat 

Be loyal. Be faithful. Be monogamous! Trust her and put her first.

Remember that before she "cheats" she will wine. cry, and complain about all the things that make her unhappy. Listen to her, open up your heart to what she's saying. If you don't understand, ask her to explain it so that you are clear as to what she's feeling. You must know her on this level. This IS intimacy! and sadly many couples lose their intimacy as their relationships move through time.

These are all warnings before the destruction of the relationship comes. So pay attention to your woman, and never cause her to feel like she's alone and single or thats how she will act. Like a single woman, and you will lose her forever.

5 SECRETS THAT WILL MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP GREAT!

For years people have been saying, "Write The Book!" and I have resisted; not because I didn't want to, nor because I didn't have the tools to share to help my audience, but simply because of time constraints due to the other "hats" I wear.

However I am now happy to announce that "5 Secrects That Will Make Your Relationship Great!" will be published very shortly... I guarantee that if you will apply these 5 secrets to you partnership you will see an amazing difference in you overall relationship happiness, more fun just being together, and increased and more enjoyable lovemaking sessions!

                                

What I am going to show in the few pages of the "manual" will change your life... Forever!

The secrets are very easy to master, theres no additional costs involved, nor is there thing that you have to pay for in order to Make Your Relationship Great!

I will however give you a hint of what it is that is the foundation to Make Your Relationship Great. The key is knowing some specific likes, and desires of your partner, but most importantly understanding their NEEDS!  

Stay tuned. This book is scheduled for release November 

Making Decisions... As A Couple!

Scripture tells us that If a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand. 
(Mark 3:25)  And thus couples must learn to make decisions together as partners; because all of your major decisions will affect both of you and the children as well.

When one of you is left out of the decision making process it can lead to anger, resentment, and even hatred. Some partners will for example go out and buy expensive items on credit without consulting their partner and it often times leads to putting the couple in a financial bind. And this as you may very well know will lead to resentment, anger, and even hatred.

Remember when your decisions are based on fairness and equality you entire family will benefit... not just you! What do you think?

Falling In Love... Over And Over Again

RELATIONSHIPS WITH PASTOR RICK: I have found that many people will stray from their marriages and go out seeking for a "new" love.
The truth of the matter is that in order to have an everlasting relationship it involves finding the "new love" within your current partner. You and your mate are fearfully and wonderfully made, and there is so much more to discover about your partner that you have not yet experienced. Spend more time dedicated solely to them, and you will find yourself falling in love with them over and over again... but only if you take the time to explore their souls more intimately!

Being One

RELATIONSHIPS WITH PASTOR RICK: **BEING ONE**  So much of our time is spent at work that we forget what we are working for. We must work but most importantly we must spend time with our families. Or else we will not have a healthy, happy home. Our mates are the only ones on the planet who can fulfill our most intimate needs. When we deprive ourselves of intimate time together we are actually allowing room for a separation in our relationship. MAKE SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR MATE THE NUMBER ONE PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE AND IN THAT UNITY THE TIME FOR EVERYTHING ELSE WILL SOMEHOW WORK OUT! What do you think?

Faith Not Feelings

       

RELATIONSHIPS WITH PASTOR RICK:  Believe it or not, you cannot build a marriage on feelings. God's word must be your foundation. Strong relationships can only be built on commitment. YOU MUST COMMIT YOURSELF TO WINNING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP NO MATTER HOW YOU MAY FEEL SOMETIMES. What do you think?