Monday, July 21, 2014

4 Characteristics of The Right Loving Relationship





The truth is, more marriages end in divorce these days than stay intact for life. We have to be sure, that who we’re committing our life to is the one that we can spend the rest of our life with.
Believe it or not more people divorce than stay married. I am convinced that this is simply because the person that was chosen, was the wrong person in the beginning. 
Here’s how you can tell that you may have found Mr. or Miss Right!


4 Characteristics of “The Right” 
Loving Relationship


1. You are best friends.
Your friendship is not only the foundation of your relationship but it is also the glue which keeps it together. You have to "connect" physically, socially, relationally, and this will lead to the two of you having a great sexual connection.
However, at the end of the day when all of the activity is done; you should be trilled just to be sitting on the sofa and watching TV together. In that moment you will know that nothing else matters but the fact that the two of you are together! Make sure you’re best friends; it is a prerequisite for a loving lasting marriage

2. You agree spiritually.
This is major. Paul tells us in 2nd Corinthians 6 that we are not to be unequally yoked. Priorities, temptations, challenges, and struggles will come in any relationship let alone one that's not bound together spiritually.  And when the storms of a marriage relationship come, it’s important that you agree on who can help fix it. Many marriages end because people didn’t get this right. Be careful. 

3. You totally trust them.
The most important aspect of any relationship is trust. Along with that goes communication If you find yourself doubting your trust for your boyfriend or girlfriend, don’t take the next step yet. Be sure you can trust them 100-percent with your time, your stuff, their actions, and their words. If not, then work on it until you do.

4. You don't think about anyone else.
If you still think about who else is out there or if it could still work with an EX, don’t get married. You must be committed to the one you are with now, otherwise you are destined to fail, even before you get started Be sure he or she is the right one for you … no one else!

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