The Power of a Woman

As I thought about the unspoken and perhaps unknown influence that my love has over me, I couldn't help but be reminded of the power that women actually have in the world. Since birth, the woman is the one who has loved, nurtured, trained, and inspired every man on the planet! Women have an enormous amount of power yet don't always seek to or know how to use it to change the destiny of their families. We will discuss more in upcoming episodes.

Don't Cause Her To Feel Single!

A woman is fully capable of being faithful. It is not so much in their nature, although it is of course possible, to be drawn to someone else when they are already in a relationship.

Temptation is not her weakness. That's one of the key issues with men... wondering eyes will often lead to a compromise of values and succumbing to physical lusts.

What most women want is Love, Attention, Honesty, and Loyalty. These things, admittedly by most men, are emotional needs that men either struggle with expressing, do not care to express, or, are simply "clueless" to the fact that they exist and are essential to fulfillment,  joy and happiness to most women.

Love her! Love is best expressed through giving and sacrifice. Give to her, your time, your things, but most importantly your heart. Share yourself with her. Sacrifice yourself, put her desires above yours, sacrifices your wants fans desires to see that hers are fulfilled

Pay attention to her. This shows her that you value her and that her opinions and ideas are respected and that they are important to you. She needs this.

Be honest with her. Even when the truth may be unpleasant, tell her the truth. Her intuition will alert her if you are not, and she will sense that something is not right. If you are no longer wanting to be with her then tell her. Be honest. Don't cheat 

Be loyal. Be faithful. Be monogamous! Trust her and put her first.

Remember that before she "cheats" she will wine. cry, and complain about all the things that make her unhappy. Listen to her, open up your heart to what she's saying. If you don't understand, ask her to explain it so that you are clear as to what she's feeling. You must know her on this level. This IS intimacy! and sadly many couples lose their intimacy as their relationships move through time.

These are all warnings before the destruction of the relationship comes. So pay attention to your woman, and never cause her to feel like she's alone and single or thats how she will act. Like a single woman, and you will lose her forever.

5 SECRETS THAT WILL MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP GREAT!

For years people have been saying, "Write The Book!" and I have resisted; not because I didn't want to, nor because I didn't have the tools to share to help my audience, but simply because of time constraints due to the other "hats" I wear.

However I am now happy to announce that "5 Secrects That Will Make Your Relationship Great!" will be published very shortly... I guarantee that if you will apply these 5 secrets to you partnership you will see an amazing difference in you overall relationship happiness, more fun just being together, and increased and more enjoyable lovemaking sessions!

                                

What I am going to show in the few pages of the "manual" will change your life... Forever!

The secrets are very easy to master, theres no additional costs involved, nor is there thing that you have to pay for in order to Make Your Relationship Great!

I will however give you a hint of what it is that is the foundation to Make Your Relationship Great. The key is knowing some specific likes, and desires of your partner, but most importantly understanding their NEEDS!  

Stay tuned. This book is scheduled for release November 

Falling In Love... Over And Over Again

RELATIONSHIPS WITH PASTOR RICK: I have found that many people will stray from their marriages and go out seeking for a "new" love.
The truth of the matter is that in order to have an everlasting relationship it involves finding the "new love" within your current partner. You and your mate are fearfully and wonderfully made, and there is so much more to discover about your partner that you have not yet experienced. Spend more time dedicated solely to them, and you will find yourself falling in love with them over and over again... but only if you take the time to explore their souls more intimately!

In The Beginning... A Purpose Of Marriage

In The Beginning...

We all know the creation story... “there was not a helper suitable for Adam." Who was Adam that there was not a helper suitable for him? 1. He was a man made in God's image; 2. His mind was aware of his purpose and he was given an assignment; 3. Adam’s spirit was connected to his creator.

  In His Image...

We know that God is a triune (three in one) being as is man. (Body, Soul, and Spirit) We are a spirit, which gives us God awareness and interaction. We have a soul, which is our mind, thoughts, emotions, preferences, likes, and dislikes, etc.. This gives us self-awareness. And we live in a body, which gives us world awareness and allows us to inter-act with our world and others.

 Equally Yoked...

None of these characteristics were true of the animals, insects, nor other living things that God had created; so God takes out of Adam a part of what he had put into him, and created a helper suitable for him.  To encompass, to surround him, to fill him in on every side. Adam was now equally yoked.

  The Ideal Pairing...

The first thing that we must remember is that whomever we seek to share our lives with, and that can only be done in marriage, is to know that to have to optimum relationship, we must compliment, uplift, encourage, pour into, and buildup each other on all three levels of our being. That is body, soul, and spirit. 

But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to be aflame with passion. 1Cor 7:8-9 ESV

  A Purpose Of Marriage

We date to mate, we mate to find love, we love to unite in marriage, and we marry to experience a completeness, which is experienced in sexual fulfillment. It is only through marriage that we are permitted to experience this dimension of love, which is expressed in the physical aspect of our being, We have now experienced love of every level... Body, Soul, and Spirit!  And thus God says, “It is not good for the man to be alone.”

Your Husband's Sexuality Is Your Gift

While in past episodes we have focused on the needs of husbands. Wives must also realized that your husband's sexual desire is also a gift to you.

Having great sex is not going to erase your marriage problems but it will greatly increase your husband's focus, faithfulness, and determination to work toward building a greater marriage.

Every woman wants to feel loved, cared for, and desired. Men do too.  And, we are to love, care for and fulfill each others sexual needs. Scripture puts it this way... 

1 Corinthians 7:3-5

³ Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.  ⁴ The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.  ⁵ Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.     

Wives know that his desire for you is not only to be viewed as "his need to be met"; but also as his drive to please you... and draw him closer into the loving relationship that you both desire.

Listen to this week's episode to find out more...

Each week Pastor Rick Greene talks in detail about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce so that you can be armed with all of the insight you need to have the optimum relationship which God intended you to have. How to build up and not tear down. How to strengthen and not destroy. How to have great a Relationship with the man or woman in your life. If you would like to be a guest call 862-888-8238. If you would like to ask a question email them to relationships@metrochristianmedia.com. Or if you would like to listen to the live show Saturdays at 11pm call 646-652-2581. 

10 Secrets to a successful marriage.

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This episode takes a look at some "secrets" that will definitely help your marriage to be long-lasting and joyous. We take a look a 10 mind sets that will change your thinking, change your life, and change your relationship.

“Happiness is not the most important thing; Commitment to your relationship is. Those in successful marriages have leaned that happiness will come and go from time to time but the most important thing is to learn to intentionally do things that will bring happiness back when life has caused it to slip away.”

Listen to my broadcast to get more insights on some "secrets" that will make your marriage successful.

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Whats Holding You Back From Your Husband?

In this installment we look at something which is often brought up in counseling sessions. As I talk with couples, each have their own desires and needs; which are often quite different, yet most men seem to have the same issue. Sex.

I find it facinating that while wives are willing to "go the extra mile" for their husbands, they are willing to cook, clean, decorate and due a host other things  "for their Husbands" yet they are often unwilling to do the one true thing that he often wants and thing that will build intimacy in their relationship.

"In counseling wives usually have about 4 or 5 things that they would like their husbands to change to make them happy and strengthen their relationship. Men typically have one... and it almost always has to do with sex."

Now while there are valid reasons for not engaging in love making such as an physical and emotional illness, self-conscienceness, lack of desire, and lack of enjoyment. Without making love couples are not engaging in the one thing which will in especially men restore the intimacy and caring in the relationship.

Now realizing how important it is to intimacy... whats hold you back from your husband?
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Each week Pastor Rick Greene talks in detail about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce so that you can be armed with all of the insight you need to have the optimum relationship which God intended you to have. How to build up and not tear down. How to strengthen and not destroy. How to have great a Relationship with the man or woman in your life. If you would like to be a guest call 862-888-8238. If you would like to ask a question email them to relationships@metrochristianmedia.com. Or if you would like to listen to the live show Saturdays at 11pm call 646-652-2581. 

Understanding Your Husbands Sexual Spiritual Needs

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Understanding Your Husband's 

Spiritual Sexual Needs

This episode addresses spiritual sexual needs. While many of you may be curious about this subject, wondering how these two topics come together, let me assure you that they do. Many of us are aware of the verses in 1 Corinthians chapter 7 which speak to the issue of marriage, stating that it is good not to marry. However, because of (sexual) immorality men and women should marry and should not “withhold” sex from one another. 

Paul states that… If you can’t control yourself sexually, it is better to marry than to burn with passionate desire. Surprisingly and simply put, sexual desire is a valid biblical reason for getting married! 

Sadly so many spouses (mostly men) marry only to later find out that their partners aren’t “burning” nearly as often as they are. Not only is sex a physical need and an emotional need; it is also spiritual, in one instant in particular… when ones sexual needs are not met. When lovemaking advances are not received, men often and ashamedly may start to gravitate to pornography and self pleasure which brings about guilt and overwhelms his spirit that causes the riff in his relationship to get bigger and possibly lead to divorce.

Each week Pastor Rick Greene talks in detail about Dating, Love, Marriage, Sex, and Divorce so that you can be armed with all of the insight you need to have the optimum relationship which God intended you to have. How to build up and not tear down. How to strengthen and not destroy. How to have great a Relationship with the man or woman in your life. If you would like to be a guest call 862-888-8238. If you would like to ask a question email them to relationships@metrochristianmedia.com. Or if you would like to listen to the live show Saturdays at 11pm call 646-652-2581.