The 3 Stages of a Relationship

 In a relationship there are three stages...

Stage one. all the beautiful words and actions appear. 

There are no problems and everything is going. well. This is the time when both partners feel energetic and excited about the future. 

Stage two is where the difficulty begins. 

You start to notice each other's imperfections and argue about even the smallest, most trivial things. at this point some couples may feel disheartened and consider giving up. However, this stage can be overcome if both partners are willing to work through the issues together. It's in this stage that the foundation of understanding begins to form.

Stage three the most beautiful stage. 

This is where real love emerges. You have learned to solve problems without shouting or arguing. You understand how to treat each other with respect and compassion. You recognize each other's strengths and vulnerabilities, and your bond deepens as you grow together. This is where you truly get to know and appreciate the depths of your love.

Ask… Seek.. Knock on the door to happiness

1. Look to identify when you are transitioning from Stage One to Stage Two, and look for practical steps to take early to prepare for Stage Two's challenges?
2. Actively seek out specific techniques or strategies that can help you to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts during Stage Two without escalating arguments.
3. Ask yourself what exercises or habits that can help you to strengthen your connection to reach Stage Three more effectively?

Suggestions for a More Loving Relationship:

1. Prioritize Open Communication: Encourage regular "check-in" conversations where both partners can openly share their feelings, concerns, and aspirations without judgment. This can help identify and address issues early before they escalate.
2. Practice Daily Acts of Kindness: Small, consistent gestures of love—like writing a heartfelt note, making their favorite meal, or simply expressing gratitude—can reinforce affection and keep the relationship vibrant.
3. Invest in Shared Growth: Participate in activities that help you grow together, such as taking a class, traveling, or reading a book on relationships. Shared experiences can deepen your bond and create lasting memories.

Above all you two MUST be in agreement to work together openly and honestly. I realize now that because I didn’t know these things my relationship failed… I share this with you so yours won’t!